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Trapped by Circumstances: Why Married Men Stay in Unhappy Marriages
Marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment built on love, trust, and happiness.
But for some men, the reality doesn’t live up to the dream.
Many find themselves stuck in unhappy marriages, feeling trapped and unsure of what to do.
It’s a complicated situation, and it raises the question: Why do married men stay in marriages that make them miserable?
I’ll be honest, writing this from a man’s point of view brings me back to moments I’ve witnessed in my own circle.
Many of the men I know have confided in me, sharing their struggles in silence.
They stay in these unhappy marriages for reasons that aren’t always easy to explain.
Below, I’ll break it down.
Hopefully, by the end, you’ll understand why leaving isn’t always an option, and why so many men choose to endure rather than escape.
1. The Fear of Hurting the Kids
Children are often the biggest reason men stay in unhappy marriages.
They worry that leaving will cause pain and confusion for their kids.