Who Cheats More? Men or Women? A Guy’s Perspective

Who cheats more? Men or Women? That’s the question I’ve heard over coffee, at the gym, even from buddies at poker night.

Everyone seems to have an opinion. And if I’m being real, it’s a question I’ve thought about myself, especially after seeing relationships fall apart.

But here’s the thing: it’s not that simple.

I remember sitting with a friend, let’s call him Jake.

Jake had just found out his girlfriend cheated.

He was devastated.

As we sat there, he asked, “Why do women cheat? Is it more common than we think?”

It got me thinking about my experiences and the stories I’ve heard.

My Personal Take on the Question

From what I’ve seen, both men and women cheat.

The reasons can be different, but the act itself?

It’s happening on both sides. I won’t sit here and say it’s all men, or it’s all women.

Life just isn’t that black and white.

There was another time when a woman I knew, Sarah, confessed she cheated on her boyfriend. Her reason? She felt emotionally neglected. “He didn’t listen to me anymore,” she said, “and I found comfort in…