Oops! What to Do When Your Boyfriend Calls You by His Ex’s Name

It happens. Your boyfriend calls you by his ex’s name. Awkward, right? Maybe you laughed it off. Maybe it stung. Either way, it’s a moment that raises questions. What now?

First, take a deep breath. Let’s unpack this together.

Why Did He Say Her Name?

Mistakes happen. But why this mistake? Understanding the “why” helps you respond better.

Here are a few common reasons:

1. Habit: If they were together for a long time, her name might be muscle memory. It’s like typing your old password after changing it — it’s reflex, not feeling.

• Example: “I used to call my dog by my childhood pet’s name for months after getting her.”

2. Stress or Distraction: People mess up when they’re distracted. His mind might be juggling too much.

• Say this to him: “You seemed distracted when you said that. Are you okay?”

3. Feelings Unresolved: Sometimes, the past isn’t entirely behind them. This one’s trickier.

• Pro Tip: Watch for patterns, not just one slip-up.

Step 1: Stay Cool

Reacting in the moment can escalate things. If you’re hurt or upset, pause. Collect…