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Snowmanning Explained: Why Holiday Romance Might Leave You Cold
How do you avoid the Snowmanning trap this festive season? It’s simple in theory but harder in practice. Snowmanning — the holiday fling that melts as fast as the snow in spring — is a common trap. It starts cozy and cute, but when the decorations come down, so does the relationship.
You’re not alone if you’ve been there before. It’s like getting hooked on a Netflix show only to find out it’s canceled after one season. Here’s how to spot it, avoid it, and protect yourself this season.
What Is Snowmanning?
Snowmanning happens when someone pursues a romantic connection during the holidays, only to vanish once the season is over.
Think of it as a festive fling with an expiration date.
Example:
Meet Julie. Last December, she met Mark at a holiday party. They bonded over spiked eggnog and Mariah Carey’s greatest hits.
By mid-January? Mark was “too busy” to even text back.
Why Does Snowmanning Happen?
The festive season brings out emotions.
- The cozy factor: Cold weather, twinkling lights, and Hallmark movies scream romance.
- Social pressure: Everyone’s paired…