When They Watch but Don’t Talk: How to Deal With Orbiting

Orbiting in Dating is the modern-day ghost haunting your social media. It’s like being ghosted, but worse — because they’re still watching your stories, liking your posts, or commenting here and there.

Sounds familiar? Let me tell you, it’s a weird mix of frustration and confusion.

Let me walk you through what orbiting is, why it happens, and most importantly, how to deal with it without losing your mind.

What Is Orbiting in Dating?

Orbiting happens when someone you’ve been talking to — or dating — cuts off direct communication but stays active on your social media.

Picture this: you’re texting someone, the vibe feels good, and suddenly, silence. No replies. No calls. Yet, every time you post a picture or a story, they’re the first to see it.

Weird, right? It’s like they want to stay in your life without putting in any effort.

Why Do People Orbit?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but here are some reasons:

They Don’t Want to Let Go Completely.
People can be selfish. They don’t want a relationship, but they also don’t want you to forget about them.