Caught in the Past: Ways to Know That He Is Not Yet Over His Ex

When Emily first started dating Jason, everything seemed perfect — until she began noticing the signs.

Subtle at first, they became harder to ignore as time went on. she realized that while he was with her physically, his heart was still tangled up in the past. It’s never easy to admit that someone you care about might not be over their ex, but the signs were there, clear as day.

In this post, I want to share her experience and the ways she came to understand that Jason wasn’t fully ready to move on.

I. The Lingering Shadow

When Emily first met Jason, she was drawn to his charm and wit. They clicked instantly, sharing stories and laughing over their mutual love for adventure. But as their relationship grew, Emily couldn’t help but notice a shadow hanging over Jason — a shadow named Lily.

Lily was Jason’s ex, a name that seemed to slip into conversations more often than Emily was comfortable with. Whether it was a funny anecdote or a shared memory, Lily’s presence lingered, making Emily wonder if she was competing with someone who wasn’t even there.

II. The Constant Comparison

It was during a casual dinner when Emily first felt the sting of comparison. Jason had been talking about a new…