Words That Work : Things to Say to a Man During Sex

Sex is about connection. Words can elevate that connection to another level. Let me walk you through my experiences — the awkward, the amazing, and the lessons learned — on how the right words can transform intimacy. Yes, even a simple sentence can make all the difference.

Why Words Matter During Intimacy

Sex is physical, sure, but it’s also deeply emotional and psychological.

A study from Archives of Sexual Behavior shows that verbal communication during sex boosts satisfaction and builds trust.

Talking is like a secret ingredient. It’s not just about making him feel good — it’s about creating an experience you’ll both remember.

Let me share a quick story to prove it.

One night, my partner told me, “You feel so good.” Simple, right? But I felt like I had just won the lottery.

That’s when I realized words can be as powerful as touch.

1. Compliment His Body

Men — just like women — love to feel attractive. During sex, they’re vulnerable too. A well-timed compliment can make him feel invincible.

Examples:

• “Your arms drive me crazy.”