The 90-Day Dating Rule: A Game-Changer for Modern Dating

When I first heard about the 90-day dating rule, I thought, “Is this a game or a strategy?” It felt like everyone had an opinion. Some swore by it. Others called it ridiculous. But me? I decided to try it out.

Here’s how it went.

What Is the 90-Day Dating Rule?

The 90-day dating rule is simple: wait 90 days before getting physically intimate with someone. Think of it as a probation period. It’s about seeing the real person behind the spark.

Steve Harvey popularized the idea in Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. He said it gives time to see if the relationship is built on respect, not just attraction.

Why I Tried It

I had a history of rushing things. Swipe right, grab dinner, fast-forward to a whirlwind romance. It always felt amazing — until it didn’t.

I’d wake up months later realizing I didn’t really know the person. That’s when I decided to try the 90-day rule.

Was it hard? Absolutely. But I was ready for a change.

Day 1–30: The Honeymoon Phase

Let’s be real — those first 30 days are easy. Everything is new. We texted all the time, went on fun dates, and shared our…