Red Flags: 10 Signs a Married Man is Using You

When you’re involved with a married man, it can be hard to know his real intentions. Let’s not sugarcoat it — some married men don’t have your best interests at heart. If you’re asking, “Is he using me?” here are 10 signs to help you figure it out.

1. He Only Calls or Texts When It’s Convenient

Ever notice how he always contacts you at odd hours? Maybe it’s late at night or during his lunch break. That’s not a coincidence. A married man who’s using you prioritizes his schedule, not yours.

Example: He sends a quick “Hey, thinking of you” at 11 p.m. but ignores your texts during the day. Why? Because his family is awake. You’re just filling his downtime.

If you’re always on his clock, that’s a big red flag.

2. He Hides You From His Life

A man who’s serious about you won’t keep you a secret. If he’s using you, he’ll do everything to keep you out of sight.

• You’ve never met his friends.
• He’s vague about his daily life.
• He avoids being seen in public with you.

Storytime: A friend once shared how her married boyfriend refused to go to a coffee shop because “someone might see us.” That’s not…