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Married but Living Separately in the Same House : One House, Two Lives
Broque and Vanessa had what seemed like a typical marriage. They shared a home, responsibilities, and memories of better times. But over the years, cracks began to show. Arguments became more frequent, and moments of connection grew rare. Eventually, they reached a breaking point.
Rather than pursue divorce, they chose an unconventional path: to remain married but live separately — under the same roof.
Why Would a Couple Make This Choice?
When friends and family learned about their decision, they were puzzled. Why stay together if you’re so far apart emotionally?
Here’s how Broque and Vanessa explained it.
1. Financial Pressures
Splitting up isn’t cheap.
Moving out, selling the house, or even renting a separate space felt impossible given their budget. Staying in the same home made financial sense, even if it came with emotional hurdles.
2. Parenting Stability
For their two kids, Broque and Vanessa wanted to maintain some semblance of normalcy.
Soccer practices, homework, and family dinners didn’t need to stop just because their marriage had…