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Is He Slow Fading You? 10 Clear Signs You’re Being Phased Out
Is He Slow Fading You? Here’s How to Tell
You feel it. The energy shifts. The texts slow down. Calls become rare. Conversations feel forced. You wonder, “Is he slow fading me?”
You’re not imagining things. Slow fading is a real thing in dating. And it’s worse than ghosting because it drags out the confusion.
Let’s talk about it.
What Is Slow Fading?
Slow fading is when someone gradually pulls away instead of ending things outright. It’s a slow-motion breakup, where instead of saying, “Hey, this isn’t working,” they just… disappear little by little.
It starts with late replies. Then, canceled plans. Soon, you’re left wondering if you’re even in a relationship anymore.
Sound familiar?
10 Signs He’s Slow Fading You
If you’re questioning it, there’s a good chance it’s happening. Here’s what to watch for:
1. His Texts Get Shorter & Less Frequent
You used to have long, fun conversations. Now, it’s just “lol” and “yeah.” No effort. No questions. Just the bare minimum to keep the conversation alive.