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Is He Shy or Not Interested? How to Read His Body Language
You’re sitting across from a guy, wondering what’s going through his mind.
You ask yourself: Is he just shy, or is he not interested?
It’s hard to tell sometimes.
I used to think the same way until I learned that body language can reveal a lot about what someone is feeling, even when they don’t say a word.
Understanding His Cues
When I first started paying attention to a people’s body language, I realized that small things can make a big difference.
This has been corroborated by my female friends.
A friend and colleague, Stephanie used to overthink every little thing a guy did. “Why didn’t he text me back?” or “Does he like me if he barely looks at me?”
She never understood that maybe, he was just shy.
Body language gives away clues, even if someone is nervous or trying to play it cool.
If you’re like me, always wondering what’s going on in people’s heads, this guide will help you.
Signs He’s Just Shy
One of the first things to look for is how a man behaves in social settings.