How to Tell If a Guy Is Sleeping Around: Insights from Women’s Experiences

I’ve talked to many women who have shared their experiences about dating.

Over time, I’ve noticed patterns in how they find out if a man is sleeping around. Here’s what I’ve learned from their stories:

1. He’s Always Busy
   If a man is constantly hard to reach, that might be a red flag. Sure, everyone is busy, but some men are always “working late” or “tied up with friends.”

Women I’ve spoken with say this is often a cover-up. He might be juggling multiple relationships or trying to avoid being caught.

2. He Doesn’t Make Future Plans
Some men avoid making plans that go beyond a week or two. This could be a sign he’s keeping his options open.

One friend told me that a guy she dated never wanted to plan anything for the next weekend. It turned out he was waiting to see if a better offer came along.

3. His Phone Is Off-Limits
Privacy is important, but if a man is overly protective of his phone, it might mean he’s hiding something.

A few women mentioned that men who are sleeping around often keep their phones on silent or face down. They might also step out of the room to take calls.