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Navigating responses when a Guy says “I Want You”: A Guide to Handling Confessions
When a Guy says “I Want You”
Let’s be real for a minute: if a guy says, “I want you,” that’s a big statement. It can hit differently depending on the context, timing, and where the relationship is at.
Whether you’ve been dating for a while or it’s a new situation, hearing those three words can stir up some serious emotions and questions.
So, what do you do when this happens? How do you respond in a way that keeps the conversation real and authentic? Let’s break it down, step by step.
The Moment He Says “I Want You”
It might be over text, on a late-night phone call, or right in front of you.
You’re just minding your business, and boom!
He says it.
Suddenly, you’re left with a whole bunch of feelings swirling in your head.
Maybe you’re flattered, maybe you’re caught off guard, or maybe you’re feeling confused about what he really means.
It’s important to pause. Don’t feel pressured to respond right away, especially if you’re unsure of how you feel.
“Pause before you react. Give yourself time to process what’s been…