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How to Know If It’s Infatuation or Love : Signs to Watch For

Stanley Parker
3 min readFeb 16, 2025

Ever been so caught up in someone that they’re all you think about? Maybe your heart pounds when they text, and you replay your conversations in your head like a favorite song. But is this real love, or just a passing infatuation?

How to Know If It’s Infatuation or Love

Infatuation: The Early Rush

Infatuation is intense. It’s like a firework — bright, explosive, but short-lived. When you’re infatuated, everything about the person seems perfect. You might:

  • Obsess over their texts, calls, or social media posts.
  • Feel butterflies every time you see them.
  • Ignore red flags or flaws because you’re so drawn to them.
  • Rush into making plans without truly knowing them.

Infatuation is driven by attraction and excitement. Your brain releases dopamine, making you feel euphoric. This stage feels amazing, but it isn’t always real love.

Love: The Deeper Connection

Love isn’t just about excitement. It’s about deep care and understanding. Unlike infatuation, love grows over time. Signs of real love include:

  • Wanting the best for them, even when it’s inconvenient for you.
  • Feeling safe and comfortable being…

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Stanley Parker
Stanley Parker

Written by Stanley Parker

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