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Navigating Long-Distance Love: How Long Should You Date Long Distance Before Moving In?
When I first started my long-distance relationship, I asked myself, How long should we wait before moving in together? It’s not an easy question. There’s no “one-size-fits-all” answer. But through my own experience — and lots of trial and error — I’ve learned a few things that might help you decide.
This is the kind of question where timing, feelings, and reality all collide. Let me walk you through what I’ve learned.
Why Timing Matters in Long-Distance Relationships
In long-distance relationships, time works differently. You don’t have the daily interactions most couples do. Instead, you plan trips, count down days, and rely on technology to stay connected.
When I was in a long-distance relationship, weekends felt like holidays, and goodbyes were brutal.
But those visits only showed a snapshot of our relationship.
The real question was: Can we make it work in the same space?
Before moving in, you need to know if your bond is strong enough to survive the shift. Timing isn’t just about the calendar — it’s about readiness.
