Reclaiming love: How do I get him back after being needy?

So, you want him back. But you’re worried you came off as too needy. I get it. I’ve been there. The good news? It’s not impossible. Let’s talk about how to fix things, step by step.

Step 1: Recognize What Happened

First, let’s address the obvious. Being needy happens. Maybe you texted him too much. Or you needed constant reassurance. Whatever it was, take a moment to reflect.

Ask yourself:

• Why did I act that way?
• Was I feeling insecure?
• Did I feel like he was pulling away?

Understanding the “why” is crucial. It’s not about beating yourself up. It’s about learning what triggered those feelings.

Step 2: Stop Chasing Him

Here’s the harsh truth: chasing him won’t work. Guys don’t respond well to pressure.

When Kim went through this, she kept sending messages, hoping for a response. Instead, she pulled further away. It wasn’t until she stopped chasing that things started to shift.

What does stopping look like?

• No texting first.
• No liking all his posts on social media.
• No showing up…