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How Do Guys Feel When You Ghost Them? A Deep Dive into Their Emotions
I remember being ghosted buy a girl once. She would probably have thought that it would just fade away without any drama. But I am sure that guilt would have set in quickly, especially after hearing how confused I felt about it later. For me, the silence wasn’t just awkward — it left me wondering what went wrong.
Guys might not always show it, but when you disappear without explanation, it can mess with their emotions and leave them second-guessing everything. I hope that she realized then that ghosting doesn’t give closure, it just adds confusion and hurt.
Ghosting is a modern dating phenomenon where one person cuts off all communication without explanation. It’s a common experience, and understanding how it affects guys can shed light on its emotional impact.
This article breaks down the feelings and thoughts guys often have when they get ghosted.
1. Confusion
When a guy is ghosted, his first reaction is usually confusion. He wonders why the communication stopped suddenly. This confusion stems from the lack of closure. Without a clear reason, he’s left guessing what went wrong.