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Marriage Secrets : Do Married Couples need to know everything about each other?
When you think about marriage, one question stands out: Should married couples know everything about each other? It’s a question that can spark some heated debates. And as a guy who’s been married for a few years, let me tell you, it’s something that comes up more than you’d think.
Now, I’m not here to say what’s right or wrong.
I’m just here to share what I’ve learned.
Maybe it’ll help you get a fresh take on the whole “share everything or keep some things to yourself?” dilemma.
So grab a coffee and let’s talk about it like old friends.
Why People Say “Yes, Know It All”
Some folks believe that marriage means sharing everything.
They say, “You’re a team, so you shouldn’t have any secrets.”
They think knowing every detail helps avoid surprises down the road. In their minds, it’s simple: full disclosure equals trust.
One couple I know actually set a rule before they got married: “No secrets.”
And they meant it.
Finances, past relationships, embarrassing moments — they put it all on the table. To them, that honesty felt like a foundation…