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Why Being Self-Motivated Makes You More Attractive to Women
Do Girls Find Self-Motivated Men Attractive?
As a man, I’ve often wondered about what qualities attract women.
One quality that stands out is self-motivation. Do girls really find self-motivated men attractive?
After many conversations and experiences, I have some insights to share.
My Journey to Self-Motivation
My journey with self-motivation began during high school. I was not the most confident guy. I struggled with grades and felt lost. Then, something changed.
I realized that I needed to take control of my life. I started setting goals for myself, from studying harder to joining clubs that interested me.
It wasn’t easy.
Some days, I wanted to quit. But I kept pushing myself. Slowly, I began to see the results. My grades improved, and I made new friends. I felt proud of myself for taking action. That confidence carried over into my dating life.
What My Friends Think
I talked to my friends about this.
One night, while hanging out, I asked, “What do you think makes a guy attractive to girls?”