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Why Being Self-Motivated Makes You More Attractive to Women

Do Girls Find Self-Motivated Men Attractive?

Stanley Parker
5 min readOct 3, 2024

As a man, I’ve often wondered about what qualities attract women.

One quality that stands out is self-motivation. Do girls really find self-motivated men attractive?

After many conversations and experiences, I have some insights to share.

Do Girls Find Self-Motivated Men Attractive?

My Journey to Self-Motivation

My journey with self-motivation began during high school. I was not the most confident guy. I struggled with grades and felt lost. Then, something changed.

I realized that I needed to take control of my life. I started setting goals for myself, from studying harder to joining clubs that interested me.

It wasn’t easy.

Some days, I wanted to quit. But I kept pushing myself. Slowly, I began to see the results. My grades improved, and I made new friends. I felt proud of myself for taking action. That confidence carried over into my dating life.

What My Friends Think

I talked to my friends about this.

One night, while hanging out, I asked, “What do you think makes a guy attractive to girls?”

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Stanley Parker
Stanley Parker

Written by Stanley Parker

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