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The Truth about Demisexual people on Dating Apps: From Swipes to Connections

Stanley Parker
4 min readOct 29, 2024

Dating apps are full of quick swipes and short bios. For a Demisexual guy, that’s a tough environment. Demisexuality means you don’t feel a connection without an emotional bond.

But Dating apps? They thrive on snap judgments.

So, let’s get real. Imagine trying to connect deeply with someone through just a few pictures and one-liners.

Impossible, right?

That’s the struggle. Here’s what it’s like navigating dating apps as a Demisexual guy.

Demisexual people on Dating Apps

What Demisexuality Really Means

Being Demisexual is about needing an emotional bond to feel attracted to someone.

You can’t just swipe right and instantly feel a spark.

You need real conversation, real connection.

This is why dating apps often feel like the wrong place. You’re not looking for a casual fling; you’re looking for something that matters.

A friend of mine asked, “So, what does it take for you to feel connected?”

Honestly, time and trust. That’s not easy to find on apps that focus on instant matches and casual chats.

The Struggle with Dating Apps as a…

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Stanley Parker
Stanley Parker

Written by Stanley Parker

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