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Decoding Desire: What Turns on a Female Narcissist?

Stanley Parker
4 min readFeb 18, 2024

When I first encountered a female narcissist, I was blindsided. At first glance, she seemed magnetic — someone who could pull everyone into her orbit without much effort. But there was more beneath the surface. Understanding what drives her desires became a game of decoding subtle cues, all while questioning my own intentions.

If you’ve ever wondered what truly turns on a female narcissist, let’s explore it together. I’ll share my personal experiences and insights I’ve learned over time, so stick around — you might find this both eye-opening and practical.

What Turns on a Female Narcissist

The Power of Attention

Here’s the deal: attention is everything. For a female narcissist, attention isn’t just a want; it’s a need. It’s not about simple compliments. It’s about a constant stream of validation that keeps her on a pedestal.

I remember meeting someone at a party. Let’s call her Lisa.

The way Lisa controlled the room was unreal. People hung on every word she said, and her laughter always felt perfectly timed. She thrived on being noticed. And when I asked her about her career — boom. She lit up like a firework.

Tip: Ask engaging questions about her interests. But don’t just stop there. Dig deeper into her achievements. Make her feel like she’s the…

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Stanley Parker
Stanley Parker

Written by Stanley Parker

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