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Dating someone on the Rebound: What You Need to Know
Dating on the rebound. I’ll say it upfront — it’s not for the fainthearted. From my experience, dating someone fresh off a breakup is like walking into a messy room, hoping it’s livable, only to realize the clutter runs deeper than expected.
A lot of people jump into rebound relationships, hoping to heal or just forget their ex.
But that quick fix?
It’s rarely as simple as it seems. Here’s what I learned when I went down this road and some things you might want to think about if you’re dating someone on the rebound.
Why People Date on the Rebound
So, why do people date right after a breakup?
It might sound strange, but there’s a comfort in distraction.
Some say, “The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.”
But in reality, using one person to forget another can feel empty.
Most of the time, people on the rebound are looking to fill a void.
When I started dating again after a tough breakup, it wasn’t because I was ready for something new; it was because I wanted to forget the old. And, honestly, it’s common.