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The Hidden Scars: Consequences of a Toxic Relationship
Relationships are hard work. Sometimes, though, they turn toxic, leaving lasting scars.
Here’s one man’s story, told from his point of view, about the consequences of a toxic relationship and how it affected him in ways he never expected.
It All Started Slowly
At first, everything seemed fine. She was charming, always saying the right things. I felt good around her.
But over time, things changed. It didn’t happen all at once, though.
She started criticizing me, small things at first, like the way I dressed or my choice of words.
I thought maybe I was just too sensitive.
But little by little, those comments piled up. Before I knew it, I was questioning my own worth.
The Weight of Emotional Abuse
One of the worst parts of a toxic relationship is the emotional abuse. The constant put-downs, the manipulation, and the gaslighting.
She would say things like, “You’re imagining things,” or “You’re too sensitive.”
I remember one time I confronted her about something hurtful she had said.