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Don’t Be Led On: 10 Signs that Your Partner is BreadCrumbing You
Breadcrumbing is a term used to describe a relationship tactic where someone gives another person just enough attention to keep them interested, but not enough to form a genuine connection. It’s like tossing out crumbs to keep a bird following you without ever giving it a full meal.
If you think you might be experiencing this, here are ten signs that your partner is breadcrumbing you.
1. Inconsistent Communication
One of the most obvious signs of breadcrumbing is inconsistent communication. Your partner might send you texts or messages sporadically, often disappearing for days or weeks, only to pop up again with a casual message. This on-and-off communication pattern keeps you guessing and hoping for more interaction.
How to Recognize It:
- They text you a lot one day and then go silent for days.
- You never know when you’ll hear from them next.
2. Vague Plans
When you try to make plans with your partner, they might be very vague about their availability. They often say things like “maybe,” “sometime,” or “we’ll see.” This vagueness can be frustrating and makes it hard to know where you stand.