When Ghosts Return: Being Zombied in Dating

Being zombied in dating is something I never thought I’d experience. You know, when someone from your past suddenly pops back into your life after disappearing for weeks, months, or even years? It’s like they rise from the dead with no warning. And let me tell you, it’s a weird, frustrating, and downright confusing experience.

What Does “Being Zombied” Even Mean?

“Zombied” is when someone ghosts you and then randomly comes back into your life as if nothing happened.

They vanish, leaving you wondering what went wrong, and then — boom! — they text you like it’s a normal Tuesday.

This isn’t just about people being flaky. It’s about how these actions mess with your emotions and your sense of self.

Jane’s Zombied Experience

It started innocently. Jane met this guy through mutual friends. Let’s call him Jake. Jake was funny, charming, and seemed genuinely interested. They went on a couple of dates, and she thought, This might actually go somewhere.

Then, out of nowhere, radio silence. No texts. No calls. Nothing.

At first, Jane thought, Maybe he’s busy. But days turned into weeks, and eventually, she got the hint. Jake wasn’t interested anymore.